Relationships: Misplaced Priorities…A,B,C, Drivers…Maids And…!

A and B are extremely close in terms of blood
relation and friendship. One helps the other on every occasion possible like
arranging cars, accommodation, get-togethers and so on. Now C is inseparable
with B and by that bond is naturally close to A too. However, the level of
priority for A is different as far as C is concerned. As it happened once C
visited A’s place alone. A had to provide some facilities due to its closeness
to B. C was provided with a car for some of its work assignments. As it
happened again, one day C got very disturbed by the way the driver of the car
behaved with it. C informed B first and then complained to A. Now A was furious
thinking, ‘I gave a car to you, and instead of expressing gratitude you dare
complain!’ B understood the case immediately. The driver behaved rather too
politely, almost going out of the way, with B once after A provided the car. The
intelligent driver understood that if it created problems with B the latter
would complain to A and A like all other members of the family would believe B
only. Now, in C’s case nobody believed it, particularly E who was extremely
close to both A and B, all taking side of the driver fully. C was inconsolable
lamenting the fact that despite being a member of the family it got no support
from anyone and instead, all got angry with it creating a ruckus. Neurotic rants
rent the air and continued creating a new low in the relationship matrix.
Once upon a time B and C visited E. As has been
proved over the years C and E do not see eye to eye. They could never gel
despite being members of the same family. On this visit too minor scuffles
continued between C and E on petty domestic issues. Now, there was a concern
for B. It was informed by A that E had developed a worrisome health condition. B
took it to heart rather too seriously, maybe because of its bond with E. B was
determined not to give E any kind of tension during their stay.
The minor scuffles continued and on two occasions B
found E crying and complaining. Not to take further risks, B advised E to go to
F’s home, another member of the family. However, E did not take the advice and
B could not speak to C about all these due to work pressure of several assignments
and B’s growing irritation with the state of things and the weather too. One day,
finally having some time, B entered C’s room, closed the door and started a
dialogue to try sort out things. But suddenly E threw the door open and baring
its teeth started attacking C with most filthy language. Getting disconcerted
and surprised B somehow managed to take E out of the room and almost ordered it
to go to F’s place immediately. Later B came to know how the spark was provided
for the shattering climax. C made a casual remark out of exasperation about the
goings-on in the house to the domestic help. Feeling the simmering tension over
the days the smart help put some colors to that remark and presented it to E
finding it alone and sitting aloof one day at home. Misplaced priorities once
again led to putting trust on a domestic help and distrust on a member of the family.
The damage was already done.
Relationships are as brittle as they are beautiful. One
should always try to nourish and protect them. Ensure peace, tranquility and
everlasting love in your family.
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